Love is Not a Feeling !

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What is the definition of love? Some people said that love is a feeling to someone. I think that love is not a feeling.. Love is a verb, like Stephen Covey said in his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families.. We choose someone and having commitment to love him/her.. someone who has mostly criterias we created.. someone who choose us as well and having commitment to love us too..

I don't believe that love can disappear.. I think that people who believe love can disappear are people who has no will to commitment to love again.. Love is not a feeling.. Love is a verb.. A thing to do.. to love.. although in good situation or bad situation.. as we expected or not.. just love just love him/her because you choose him/her..

For you who has no soulmate yet,
Thank God for your condition.. Having soulmate is not easy as you thought.. Thank God because now you are in process to be a better person through problems in your life.. All of these is to prepare you until you found your soulmate.. Remember, after you find your soulmate, you and him/her still will learn a lot and will be processed a lot.. Have you make a criterias for your soulmate candidate? Have you become the person like your criterias?
"So then, whatever you desire that others would do to and for you, even so do also to and for them, for this is (sums up) the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 7:12 (Amplified)

For you who ever has soulmate but now you has no soulmate yet,
Thank God for all process has been done in your life.. Of course you have learned a lot from your experience of love.. Don't keep a disappointed or broken heart.. Forgive him/her.. Live your new life.. Wait the moment you meet your true soulmate.. In your waiting, let the problems process and prepare you when the times is arrive.. Remember, after you find your soulmate, you and him/her still will learn a lot and will be processed a lot.. Have you make a criterias for your soulmate candidate? Have you become the person like your criterias?
"So then, whatever you desire that others would do to and for you, even so do also to and for them, for this is (sums up) the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 7:12 (Amplified)

For you who has soulmate already,
Thank God you have chose someone for you to love and have chose to be loved.. Enjoy the process with the heart that will to love and will to forgive.. Keep to learn each other and having commitment to be faithful and to love.. For you who are not married yet, keep your holiness before your marriage because it's worth to wait for the best at the right time.. Like a fruit that is almost ripe, the taste is sweet indeed for the first time we eat that, but end with bitter or sour.. But, when we eat the fruit that is ripe wholefully, we will taste the sweet wholefully too..
"Communication is the key of relationship. Be humble to receive any comments from your spouse and be honest to your spouse." @inspiratorwords

For all of you,
Inspired from book and movie Fireproof (Recommended to watch! ^v^), one of my friend dare you to do love actions to your wife/husband for you who has married.. But, for you who has no married yet, you can take this dare too, but there are some dares that you are not allowed to do because it is only for you who has married..
Check this out and do it if you dare.. LOVE DARE (^o^)/

Jesus bless you all (^o^)/
Jesus bless you all

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